Tuesday 1 December 2009

So far so good!

I'm told that people actually read this with interest (you sad people),  so I thought I'd better give you another update, although it's much of the same really.  Tomorrow will be 1 month on from the op and I'm still waiting for it all to go wrong, no sickness, no goo, no dumping syndrome, what's going on!  Despite my boy passing on the Great Plague (man flu) to me,  I'm still doing really well and have learned a lot about how my new digestive system works and how to minimise pain and discomfort.

Although my diet is still not very adventurous, I am becoming a little more daring with food and are yet to suffer badly as a result.  I had avoided anything sweet, but I've introduced shortbread biscuits, carrot cake and ginger cake, mmmm cake.  I'm not gaining weight yet, but I'm confident that I will soon if I remember to snack!  Seriously, that's all I do,  eat,  drink and visit the loo (bathroom, for my friends across the pond!).  I think I might move the fridge to the bathroom? Got to be better than moving the loo to the kitchen.  For those interested, all is still ok in that department by the way!  Most meals and snacks still cause discomfort, but I'm learning to minimise this by not overdoing it and sitting still for half an hour or so afterwards.

I'm now a qualified junkie! I've had 5 build up injections of vitamin B12,  4 of which I did myself under supervision from the nurse.  She says I'm a natural, which I could take as an insult, but I see what she means I suppose.  I inject my thigh with the solution which is easy as pie.  The hardest bit will be picking my wife up off the floor when she sees me do it at home.  From now on these will be every 12 weeks, so fairly infrequent.  I'm booked in for the flu and swine flu jabs later this week along with most of the pensioners in my local area.  Although I'm not really in any of the 'at risk' groups, the nurse thinks it would be sensible until my diet is sufficient to rebuild my immune system.

The wound has healed well and has turned a deep red colour.  It's still a little sore at times, but not bad at all.  My stomach muscles around the wound are quite sore, so I guess they're healing.  My energy levels are improving, but I do still tire quickly.  I ventured out to the football on Saturday with my pal Dan which went well.  I chose to wear my entire wardrobe as it was freekin freezing out and went armed with snacks.  It was really strange watching the game sober, and quite depressing at times. I did forget myself and jump up when the second goal went in and nearly detached my esophagus from my bowel, really, it hurt.  It won't happen again, not because I'll remember, because we won't score 2 goals in a game again for a long time.

Thanks again for all of the well wishes, cards and presents, I didn't realise I know that many people.  My boss called round with cards and presents from colleagues following a collection they had, thanks to all, really kind of you.  One of the presents was the game Operation, made me laugh!  I don't know why my surgeon took so long, I can do a total gastrectamy in 10 seconds without the buzzer going off!  I'm off to see him next week so I'll pass on some tips.  I'll keep you posted on what he tells me.

Despite feeling quite good, it's now sunk in that it's going to be a long slow process to getting 'well' again.  Without doubt, low energy levels are going to be the main battle.  I'll get there though.

Thanks for reading.
Lee.

2 comments:

  1. Wow bro, your more of an Author than an I.T wizz - seriously, I can sit and read your stuff without any pictures! Your doing well Bro, keep fighting and the battle will be won. Love Ad and Gem x

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  2. Hi Lee,
    I agree with Adam that you are quite the writer! Those of us in the HDGC "family" always find these stories compelling and interesting, and the main fact that you are experiencing PROGRESS is the best of all.
    So glad you are moving steadily along the journal to what my sister-in-law Karen calls "the new normal."
    All the best to you and your family across the pond,
    Cindy Chelcun
    in chilly Wisconsin, USA

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